I’ll be honest—taxes used to feel like this big, scary thing that I didn’t want to deal with. Every year, I’d open TurboTax, plug in the numbers, and hope for the best. But this year, something clicked. I realized that if I’m serious about taking control of my finances, understanding taxes is non-negotiable. They’re a huge part of our financial lives, so why not learn how they actually work?
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, confused, or just plain annoyed by taxes, you’re not alone. That’s exactly why I’m diving into this topic—to break it down, make it manageable, and maybe even find some empowerment along the way. So let’s tackle this together. We’re on a financial journey, and understanding taxes is just one step toward our goals.

Why Am I Paying Taxes?
Let’s be real—seeing money taken out of your paycheck is never fun. But those federal taxes? They’re paying for stuff we all use (or might use someday). Think Social Security, Medicare, education, national defense, and even fixing up highways. It’s like we’re all chipping in for this giant communal piggy bank that funds the country.
Now, I get it. It’s hard to feel excited about paying for programs you might not directly benefit from. But without taxes, so many things we take for granted just wouldn’t happen. So while it’s frustrating, it’s also kind of essential. (Still doesn’t make that paycheck sting any less, though.)
How Do I Know How Much Tax I Owe or Get Back?
Okay, let’s talk paystubs. You know that moment when you glance at your paycheck and see how much is being taken out for taxes? Cue gasp. It’s like, “Wait, I could’ve had this much more? What even is this number?!” Yep, that’s your federal tax withholding.
Here’s the deal: taxes owed (or refunded) are based on the difference between how much was withheld from your paycheck and your actual tax liability. It’s not just a random number—it’s the government’s way of spreading out your tax payments over the year so you’re not hit with a giant bill all at once.
- Refunds happen if too much was withheld from your paycheck. Think of it like getting your own money back because Uncle Sam borrowed a little extra.
- Owing Taxes happens if not enough was withheld or you had extra income (like side hustles) that didn’t get taxed properly.
If you’re freelancing, side hustling, or doing gig work, make sure to stash some cash for taxes—because trust me, finding out you owe money when you weren’t prepared is not a fun surprise. Been there, done that, never again!
What’s the Difference Between a Tax Deduction and a Tax Credit?
Tax talk can feel like a foreign language, but here’s a simple translation:
- Tax Deduction: Lowers your taxable income. For example, everyone qualifies for a standard deduction. In 2024, the standard deduction for single filers is $14,600. If you earn $75,000, you subtract $14,600 from your income, leaving $60,400 as your taxable income. You’re not taxed on that $14,600—lucky you!
- Tax Credit: Directly reduces the tax you owe. Think of it like a coupon for your taxes. If you qualify for a $2,000 tax credit, it’s like knocking $2,000 off your final bill. Pretty sweet, right?
Here’s the bottom line: deductions lower the amount you’re taxed on, while credits lower the actual taxes you owe. Both are great, so don’t leave them on the table!
This is a list of the 2024 standard tax deductions from taxfoundation.org. For more information about deductions or tax prices, you can browse there!

Why Do I Owe Taxes Even Though I Paid Throughout the Year?
Ah, the dreaded “Why do I owe money?!” moment. Here are some reasons it might happen:
- Your withholding wasn’t enough to cover your tax bill. (Check your W-4 form—it’s what tells your employer how much to withhold.)
- You earned side income, like freelance work, and didn’t set aside taxes for it.
- You got unemployment benefits, which are taxable but don’t always have enough taxes withheld upfront.
This has happened to me before. I had a year where I worked tons of overtime, didn’t think about taxes, and boom—I owed $1,500. Not fun. Lesson learned: if you’re making extra money, plan ahead and save for taxes so you’re not caught off guard.
What Should I Do If I Owe Taxes?
Okay, so you owe. First, take a deep breath. It’s not the end of the world. Here’s how to handle it:
- File on Time: Even if you can’t pay the full amount, file your taxes by the deadline to avoid extra penalties.
- Set Up a Payment Plan: The IRS isn’t a total monster—they offer installment agreements so you can spread payments out over time.
- Adjust Your Withholding: Update your W-4 form with your employer to make sure enough is withheld next year. This can help prevent future surprises.
Remember, it’s better to face it head-on than to ignore it. You’ve got options, and you’re not alone in figuring this out.
What Can I Do With My Tax Refund?
Finally, the fun part—getting money back! Before you start dreaming about that Amazon cart, let’s talk strategy:
- Pay Down Debt: If you’ve got high-interest credit cards or loans, this is a great chance to knock them out.
- Build Savings: Add to your emergency fund. Future you will thank you when unexpected expenses pop up.
- Invest: Put some money toward your retirement (hello, IRA!) or start investing in a brokerage account.
- Plan for Goals: Whether it’s travel, education, or something else, use your refund to move closer to your big dreams.

Here’s my advice: Make a plan before you see that refund hit your account. Once the money’s there, it’s so tempting to spend it all on impulse buys. Trust me, you’ll feel so much better knowing you used it wisely.
This is just the beginning of my tax journey. I’m learning that understanding taxes is empowering and helps me make better financial decisions. If this feels overwhelming, start small and keep researching—it’s worth the effort to take control of your finances.
Let’s figure this out together. We’ve got this!